剖腹產媽媽秀疤痕自拍,寫出許多婦女不吐不快的心聲!

來自澳洲墨爾本的奧莉維亞(Olivia White)是一名部落客,擁有兩個女兒安娜貝爾(Annabelle)和希歐多拉(Theodora)。 第二個女兒剖腹產出生後不久,她忍不住在Instagram上分享這段心聲...

 

Look I know it might not be my best angle (or is it?) but who wouldn't take selfies hours post birth so they can see where they sliced you open and yanked out a whole person (if you couldn't tell I still couldn't see past my still inflated uterus) This is what you really look like a few hours post c-section To anyone who thinks it's the easy way out, we'll try having a 6 inch gash in your abdomen like a gutted shark who had the body parts of the surfer it ate retrieved! That's then sewn back together with fishing wire while it feels like your vital organs are trying to escape! I mean sure, everything is and till the spinal wears off! After that it's like you've been hit by a bus which then backed over you just to make sure it didn't miss you the first time! If you don't time the Endone exactly before the previous lot wore off then you will most certainly know you are alive (while wishing you were dead) ☠️ and worst of all you'll feel as if you'll spend your entire life wearing nanna knickers up around your waist because the thought of anything settling in the canyon between your gut and pubic region is the stuff nightmares are made of Anyone who's ever had c section knows that you'll forever be dependant on your friends Nancy, Dr 90210 and Spanx because you cannot for the life of you get rise of the ditch that is left by the scar But for all the skin tight Kookai dresses I bought while pregnant that now make me look like I have a Kangaroo pouch - I wouldn't change it! Because if it wasn't for the ability to deliver my babies this way they might not be here today plus I recon getting cut from A to B sounds way worse

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看,我知道這可能不是最佳角度(或者是?),但誰不想在生產完幾小時後自拍,好讓她自己看一下她被一刀劃開,然後拉出一個完整的人?(如果你看不出來,其實我現在還無法回顧我那蓬鬆鼓脹的子宮) 。給那些覺得剖腹產比較輕鬆簡單的人,這是妳在剖腹產完幾小時後,看起來的樣子。我們的腹部會有一道6英寸的大裂痕,好像衝浪者身體的一部分被鯊魚吃了後撕回來的樣子,然後傷口再被釣魚線縫回來,但同時妳會覺得妳的重要器官全都試著逃出身體!我的意思是,直到妳的脊椎磨損,這一切都還算是小意思!接下來,妳會覺得自己像被車撞上,車又倒回來輾過妳,以確保它沒有把妳漏掉!如果妳沒有在止痛藥效果消失前算好時間的話,妳肯定會知道自己還活著(同時盼望自己死了)。而最糟的是,妳感覺好像得一輩子都穿著束褲,因為妳的腹部和恥骨隔著一道峽谷。而每個剖腹產過的女人都有同樣的夢魘,好像妳必須永遠倚賴妳的好朋友Nancy、Dr 90210 或Spanx 塑身衣,因為妳不想露出疤痕造成的那道溝,而所有懷孕前買的那些連身洋裝,現在都讓我看起來像有個袋鼠袋,我不想換上!而如果不是要這樣生下寶寶,這些今天可能都不會出現。此外,我聽說從A到B被切一刀聽起來更糟!

奧莉維亞也分享了「產房中」的真實畫面...

 她的兩個女兒都由剖腹產方式出生...

 奧莉維亞和這些千辛萬苦得來的甜蜜負擔!

奧莉維亞幽默、真實的分享引起許多媽媽的共鳴。不論是自然產還是剖腹產的母親,大家都對那種疼痛和辛苦感同身受,也有許多媽媽叫苦,周遭朋友聽到她們是剖腹產,總是用一種「你那算什麼」、「你不知道自然產多痛苦」的語氣和她們交談。「別以為剖腹產很輕鬆!」

「現今有許多孕婦如果不是能透過剖腹產,根本無法生下寶寶。我想女人們能透過這個機會分享經驗,告訴別人那到底是怎樣的過程,是一件很棒的事。」奧莉維亞解釋。「生產就是生產,而我們都是媽媽,我們應該團結!」

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